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finding out you have breast cancer

What?
No. It's just a little lump.
No...never had any problems with them before.
Um, I think it moves around when I press on it.
Yes. It's smooth.
Hmmm. Well, I wouldn't say it hurts. It's a tiny bit uncomfortable when I poke it.
Nope. Never been on the pill.
Never smoked.
Yep. Breastfed all four. Over a year each. The baby till she was two and a half.
Well, I think I'm fairly fit.
Healthy.
Haven't eaten red meat for 20 years.
We do eat organically, locally and seasonally as much as we can. We even started growing a lot of our own fruit and veg last year.
I'm pretty sure there's no family history. I haven't told my family yet. I didn't want to worry them needlessly.


What?
Cancer?
No.
No.
No.
Please.
No.
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